Communication

Remember i was in Malaysia, i was a total wooden girl, with eyes that can kill and golden mouth, thats what ppl say. Even now, sumtimes i'm like that. I am scared by myself. o.O Since coming here to Melbourne for some reason I brighten out a teeny bit. Sumtimes my face still give a wrong indication to people that I 'bu shuan' them. Reli, i didn't mean anything! I need a mirror to practise smiling.=D


So, ppl say communication is the key. If a husband and a wife didn't communicate for a year, u think they will still feel for each other? Hmmm..... yea you would say 'Yea, if their luv is true then no matter time space bla bla bleh bluek....' Anyway, some tips i pick up from some video..

For guy
girl handle stress by talking, talk talk talk talk talk. Some things guy cannot do when they are doing the talk.
-'Its not a big deal. Get over it.'
-'You should do this. You should do that' (they not looking for advice)
-'har? what did u say?'
-'Did u see where i put my keys?'

Do little things. Its those little things that made your girl's day. It's not always a grand b'day party or stg reli big.
Flowers. A hug. Write a little note. Tie her shoe. Offer to help comb her hair(a killer). Open the door for her. 'I love you'. Clean up your room(seriously r u tat tidy? I dun think she's happy u clean up HER room).
Okay, they MADE you a gift. Wow, its not reli ur taste haha. And you have to wear it O.O........
The solution is....... wear it! Because you will find her asking 1000 times a day 'where's that thing i gave you?'

For girl
Before the talk, tell him to listen to you till the end. All he has to do is look at your face (although he always says its big), and nod his head.

Really after your talk and he's done something to cheer u up, dun bring it up again after that. If you're happy, he's happy too.

Guys are really slow, like tortoise. Tell them discreetly what's wrong, dun spill out in front of his friends. Man's ego! Help them to realize things. When u r unhappy, you need to speak up as well because they are slow.

When they want to be alone, leave them be. Wait for them to come back and talk to you.

Don't ask them to say 'I love you' ALL the time. For guys, they did the initial dating and all that, they thought they have done it. They just think they don't want to do it the second time when they have expressed enough. If they dun love you why do they still even care.

Ok. They gave u stg they think they went to the skies and get it. Seriously even if u DON'T reli like it, appreciate it and scream with joy.(we girls r actually happy with a gift even wit a pair if green socks, hey how many times do we get a gift per year)
-Oh before I end this, sumtimes i find guy's a bit like girl. Yea, don't say he's such a girly. How many times can we actually see him become a small little tortoise and submissive. Let them express when they want to, its actually healthy.